[Index]
Eliza COOKE (1810 - 1852)
mother, settler, pioneer
Children Self + Spouses Parents Grandparents Greatgrandparents
Thomas SOUTHWELL (1835 - 1921)
Mary Ann SOUTHWELL (1837 - 1874)
William SOUTHWELL (1840 - )
Samson SOUTHWELL (1841 - 1914)
Samuel SOUTHWELL (1843 - 1928)
John SOUTHWELL (1845 - 1912)
Eliza SOUTHWELL (1847 - )
Lydia SOUTHWELL (1849 - )
Jabez SOUTHWELL (1852 - 1852)
 Eliza COOKE (1810 - 1852)

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Thomas SOUTHWELL (1813 - 1881)
 William COOKE











Mary (COOKE)











b. 1810 at Sussex, England
m. 1833 Thomas SOUTHWELL (1813 - 1881) at Robertsbridge, Sussex, England
d. 20 May 1852 at Ginninderra, ACT, Australia aged 42
Near Relatives of Eliza COOKE (1810 - 1852)
Relationship Person Born Birth Place Died Death Place Age
Father in Law Samuel SOUTHWELL
Mother in Law Sarah Ann JACKSON

Father William COOKE
Mother Mary (COOKE)

Self Eliza COOKE 1810 Sussex, England 20 May 1852 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia 42

Husband Thomas SOUTHWELL 1813 Robertsbridge, Sussex, England 31 May 1881 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia 68

Son Thomas SOUTHWELL 1835 Robertsbridge, Sussex, England 08 Feb 1921 Gunning, New South Wales, Australia 86
Daughter Mary Ann SOUTHWELL 1837 Robertsbridge, Sussex, England 25 May 1874 Rye Park, New South Wales, Australia 37
Son William SOUTHWELL 1840 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia
Son Samson SOUTHWELL 1841 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia 08 Aug 1914 Hall, New South Wales, Australia 73
Son Samuel SOUTHWELL 1843 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia 17 Dec 1928 Hall, New South Wales, Australia 85
Son John SOUTHWELL 1845 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia 21 Oct 1912 Hall, New South Wales, Australia 67
Daughter Eliza SOUTHWELL 1847 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia
Daughter Lydia SOUTHWELL 1849 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia
Son Jabez SOUTHWELL 1852 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia 1852 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia 0

Daughter in Law Eliza ROFFE 1840 Kirkham, New South Wales, Australia 21 Jan 1923 Gunning, New South Wales, Australia 83
Son in Law Alfred BEMBRICK 1837 Rye, Sussex, England 08 Jan 1922 Harden, New South Wales, Australia 85
Daughter in Law Elizabeth (Betsy) VENESS 1838 Sussex, England 10 Feb 1903 Hall, New South Wales, Australia 65
Daughter in Law Harriet BEMBRICK 1840 16 Apr 1876 Weetangera, New South Wales, Australia 36
Daughter in Law Eliza Jane SMITH 1847 10 Oct 1939 Weetangera, New South Wales, Australia 92
Daughter in Law Louisa SMITH 1844 Ramsay, Huntingdonshire, England 1926 Junee, New South Wales, Australia 82

Grandson Jabez SOUTHWELL 1858 Queanbeyan, New South Wales, Australia 1858 Queanbeyan, New South Wales, Australia 0
Granddaughter Jane SOUTHWELL 1859 Queanbeyan, New South Wales, Australia 1859 Queanbeyan, New South Wales, Australia 0
Granddaughter Sarah SOUTHWELL 1861 Queanbeyan, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson Richard SOUTHWELL 1864 Queanbeyan, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson Samson SOUTHWELL 1866 Yass, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson David SOUTHWELL 1869 Yass, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson Noah SOUTHWELL 1872 Yass, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson Josiah SOUTHWELL 1875 Yass, New South Wales, Australia
Granddaughter Mary Ann Adelphi SOUTHWELL 1882 Gunning, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson Thomas BEMBRICK 1858 Parkwood, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson James BEMBRICK 1860 Parkwood, New South Wales, Australia 1927 67
Grandson Alfred BEMBRICK 1861 Parkwood, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson Samson BEMBRICK 1863 Rye Park, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson Samuel BEMBRICK 1863 Rye Park, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson John BEMBRICK 1865 Rye Park, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson Mark BEMBRICK 1867 Rye Park, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson Michael BEMBRICK 1868 Rye Park, New South Wales, Australia
Granddaughter Helen BEMBRICK 1871 Rye Park, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson Silas BEMBRICK 1872 Rye Park, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson Thomas SOUTHWELL 1863 Hall, New South Wales, Australia 20 May 1925 Hall, New South Wales, Australia 62
Grandson John SOUTHWELL 1865 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia 29 Jan 1942 Hall, New South Wales, Australia 77
Grandson Henry SOUTHWELL 1867 Hall, New South Wales, Australia 18 Apr 1942 Junee, New South Wales, Australia 75
Granddaughter Charlotte Ann SOUTHWELL 1869 Hall, New South Wales, Australia
Granddaughter Emily SOUTHWELL 1870 Hall, New South Wales, Australia
Granddaughter Obed SOUTHWELL 1872 Hall, New South Wales, Australia
Granddaughter Lucy Jane SOUTHWELL 1874 Hall, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson William Abel SOUTHWELL 1876 Hall, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson Samson James SOUTHWELL 1878 Hall, New South Wales, Australia 25 Jan 1955 Hall, New South Wales, Australia 77
Granddaughter Elizabeth Beatrice SOUTHWELL 1880 Hall, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson Walter SOUTHWELL abt 1881 Hall, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson Edward SOUTHWELL abt 1882 Hall, New South Wales, Australia
Granddaughter Elizabeth SOUTHWELL 1864 Parkwood, New South Wales, Australia 18 Nov 1940 Hall, New South Wales, Australia 76
Granddaughter Mary Ann Marianne SOUTHWELL 1866 Parkwood, New South Wales, Australia 29 May 1961 Hall, New South Wales, Australia 95
Grandson Alfred SOUTHWELL 1867 Parkwood, New South Wales, Australia
Granddaughter Etty SOUTHWELL 1869 Parkwood, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson Charles William SOUTHWELL 1871 Parkwood, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson Ernest Richard SOUTHWELL 1874 Parkwood, New South Wales, Australia 1875 Parkwood, New South Wales, Australia 1
Granddaughter Harriet SOUTHWELL 1876 Parkwood, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson Linsdey Edwin SOUTHWELL 1878 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia
Granddaughter Bertha Eveline SOUTHWELL 1881 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia
Granddaughter Ethel Eliza SOUTHWELL 1885 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia
Grandson Albert SOUTHWELL 1868 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia
Granddaughter Eva Annie SOUTHWELL 1869 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia
Granddaughter Amelia Alma SOUTHWELL 1871 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia
Grandson William Shelton SOUTHWELL 1873 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia
Grandson Raymond SOUTHWELL 1875 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia 16 May 1942 Hall, New South Wales, Australia 67
Grandson Sidney Rowland SOUTHWELL 1880 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia 16 Jan 1933 Illabo, New South Wales, Australia 53
Grandson Edward John Thomas SOUTHWELL 1882 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia

Niece Harriet SOUTHWELL 1843 Sussex, England 1871 Collector, Monaro, New South Wales, Australia 28
Nephew Samuel (Captain) SOUTHWELL 1844 Salehurst, Sussex, England 22 Jul 1920 Hall, New South Wales, Australia 76
Niece Jane SOUTHWELL 1847 Sussex, England bef 1858 Sussex, England 11
Nephew Thomas SOUTHWELL 1850 Robertsbridge, Sussex, England 28 Mar 1907 Sutton, New South Wales, Australia 57
Niece Mary A SOUTHWELL 1853 Sussex, England 1936 83
Nephew George Edward SOUTHWELL 1856 Salehurst, Sussex, England 06 Apr 1912 Sydney, New South Wales, Australia 56
Niece Lydia SOUTHWELL 1860 Parkwood, New South Wales, Australia 1939 79
Niece Ellen SOUTHWELL 1863 Ginninderra, ACT, Australia
Nephew Joshua SOUTHWELL 1859 Weetangera, New South Wales, Australia
Niece Gertrude SOUTHWELL 1860 Weetangera, New South Wales, Australia 1890 30
Niece Minnie SOUTHWELL 1868 1906 38
Niece Rose SOUTHWELL 1871

Brother in Law John SOUTHWELL 1818 Sussex, England 28 Jan 1889 Sutton, New South Wales, Australia 71
Brother in Law Mark SOUTHWELL 1826 Robertsbridge, Sussex, England 04 Sep 1909 83
Events in Eliza COOKE (1810 - 1852)'s life
Date Age Event Place Notes Src
1810 Eliza COOKE was born Sussex, England 6
1833 23 Married Thomas SOUTHWELL (aged 20) Robertsbridge, Sussex, England 6
1835 25 Birth of son Thomas SOUTHWELL Robertsbridge, Sussex, England 6
1837 27 Birth of daughter Mary Ann SOUTHWELL Robertsbridge, Sussex, England 6
30 Jun 1838 28 Immigration Sydney, New South Wales, Australia per 'Lady Nugent' 6
1840 30 Birth of son William SOUTHWELL Ginninderra, ACT, Australia 6
1841 31 Birth of son Samson SOUTHWELL Ginninderra, ACT, Australia 6
1843 33 Birth of son Samuel SOUTHWELL Ginninderra, ACT, Australia 6
1845 35 Birth of son John SOUTHWELL Ginninderra, ACT, Australia 6
1847 37 Birth of daughter Eliza SOUTHWELL Ginninderra, ACT, Australia 6
1849 39 Birth of daughter Lydia SOUTHWELL Ginninderra, ACT, Australia 6
1852 42 Birth of son Jabez SOUTHWELL Ginninderra, ACT, Australia 6
1852 42 Death of son Jabez SOUTHWELL Ginninderra, ACT, Australia 6
20 May 1852 42 Eliza COOKE died Ginninderra, ACT, Australia 6
Source References:
6. Type: Book, Abbr: Queanbeyan Register, Title: Biographical register of Canberra and Queanbeyan: from the district to the Australian Capital Territory 1820-1930, Auth: Peter Proctor, Publ: The Heraldry & Genealogical Society of Canberra, Date: 2001
- Reference = 56 (Birth)
- Reference = 56 (Death)
- Reference = 303 (Marriage)
- Reference = 302 (Name, Notes)
80. Type: Web Page, Abbr: Hall Museum, Title: Hall School Museum and Heritage Centre, Locn: https://museum.hall.act.au/
- Reference = https://museum.hall.act.au/display/1939/person/2246/eliza-southwell-nee-cooke.html (Name, Notes)
- Notes: Eliza Southwell (nee Cooke)

Born: 1810; Died: 1852; Married: Thomas Southwell

Related Places
Parkwood
The Parkwood Home of Thomas and Mary Southwell Southwell Family Society In 1863 at the age...

In a corner of the church grounds of St John's Church in Reid is a special grave, that of Eliza Southwell, my great-great-grandmother. The grounds are tended, the trees well established, but at the time of this burial the landscape was quite different. The church was newly built, surrounded by cleared land, with some clumps of trees and an occasional building. Eliza was laid to rest here on 20 May 1852, after the birth of her ninth child Jabez, who was buried near his mother four months later. The headstone we see today had been brought from Sydney on Thomas Southwell's wagon.

Historical records tell much about our ancestor, Thomas Southwell. There is a wealth of information about this pioneer settler. But what of Eliza Southwell? Who was this mother of nine, ancestor of hundreds of Southwells? There are few facts and no known photos. Eliza Cooke was born in 1810 in the East Sussex Parish of Salehurst, in the village of Ewhurst. She was married at twenty three to Thomas Southwell at St James Church, Ewhurst Green (near Bodian Castle) in East Sussex. Nearby St Mary's Church at Salehurst stands in its ancient graveyard, on a quiet road which leads to the larger village of Robertsbridge, a typical East Sussex town.

The 1830s brought great hardship for people living in the Parish of Salehurst. Even so, the decision to leave cannot have been easy. Australia, relatively unknown at that time, was almost as far from England as it is possible to travel: literally, the other side of the world. Eliza and Thomas left knowing they probably wouldn't again see their parents, extended family or friends. They embarked on a perilous voyage to an unknown future in an unknown country. The Lady Nugent made the voyage to Sydney in four months.

The company of other emigrants from Salehurst Parish may have made the voyage more bearable. With them on the voyage were Eliza's brother, Thomas Cooke and his family, and the Bainbridge (Bembrick) family. On arrival in Australia Eliza would have had the company of other women from her home area who had settled in Cobbitty. The Wesleyan faith of these East Sussex families was central to their lives, with home and open-air meetings and eventually the establishment of the chapel at Cawdor.

It must have been tempting to remain in a settled area in the company of like-minded Christian friends, but after little more than a year at Cobbitty, Eliza and Thomas again faced a journey into the unknown. Travellers were in danger of being attacked by bushrangers and escaped convicts on Razorback and further south in the Bargo Brush. Many were menaced and injured along the grandly named Great South Road. The trip to the Limestone Plains would have taken weeks in the most trying of conditions along rutted, boggy tracks.

Little is known of Thomas and Eliza's first Ginninderra home at Palmerville. It was possibly of stringybark with an earthen floor. The nearest town was Queanbeyan which in 1841 consisted of 72 residents. Palmerville and the adjacent Charnwood had a population of 100, many of whom were male convicts or ticket of leave men. There were few women.... Ginninderra Creek in the early 1840s was said by Julia Webb, who ran a sly grog shop, to have been "a perfect hell before Thomas Southwell came to live here".

Eliza was often alone with the children for six weeks at a time when Thomas began his teamster operation to and from Sydney. In those early days Eliza would have had to rely upon bush remedies for the children's ailments. She had to provide for the practical needs of the children, for their health, safety and education, a huge undertaking in such an isolated area. For Eliza's own medical support there would only have been perhaps a midwife. In 1852 Eliza died in giving birth to Jabez, her ninth child. She was only 42. Who was Eliza Southwell? We still do not know, but certain qualities come to mind: courage, determination and spiritual strength. It is because of Eliza Southwell that many of us are here today. Eliza Southwell, brave lady, we remember you.

[From 'Stories from Parkwood', written by Dorothy Ebeling. Kindly provided by the Southwell Family Society]
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