[Index]
Caroline MIDDLETON (1810 - 1863)
Children Self + Spouses Parents Grandparents Greatgrandparents
Eliza Middleton MCALISTER (1826 - 1873)
Elizabeth MCALISTER (1830 - 1889)
John James MCALISTER (1832 - 1882)
Mary Henrietta Middleton MCALISTER (1835 - 1889)
William Henry MCALISTER (1838 - 1840)
Charlotte MCALISTER (1840 - 1890)
Robert MCALISTER (1842 - 1925)
James MCALISTER (1844 - 1890)
Jemima MCALISTER (1846 - 1907)
Thomas George MCALISTER (1849 - 1930)
Sarah MCALISTER (1850 - 1915)
Rebecca MCALISTER (1852 - 1927)
George MCALISTER (1854 - 1928)
Caroline MIDDLETON (1810 - 1863)

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Michael BRENNAN (1803 - 1892)

Thomas MCALISTER (1802 - 1875)
William Henry MIDDLETON (1774 - 1828)











Sarah GUNNER (1775 - 1836)











Thomas MCALISTER

Thomas MCALISTER
b. 31 Dec 1810 at London, Middlesex, England
m. (1) 1826 Michael BRENNAN (1803 - 1892) at Sydney Cove, New South Wales, Australia
m. (2) 14 Apr 1828 Thomas MCALISTER (1802 - 1875) at Campbelltown, New South Wales, Australia
d. 25 Apr 1863 at Tumut, New South Wales, Australia aged 52
Near Relatives of Caroline MIDDLETON (1810 - 1863)
Relationship Person Born Birth Place Died Death Place Age
Father in Law Robert MCALISTER 1761 Louth, Ireland 10 Feb 1832 Sydney, New South Wales, Australia 71
Mother in Law Elizabeth VOLLER 1781

Father William Henry MIDDLETON 19 Oct 1774 Cripplegate, London, England 20 Jan 1828 Campbelltown, New South Wales, Australia 53
Mother Sarah GUNNER 1775 1836 61

Self Caroline MIDDLETON 31 Dec 1810 London, Middlesex, England 25 Apr 1863 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 52

Husband Michael BRENNAN 1803 1892 89
Husband Thomas MCALISTER 1802 Sydney, New South Wales, Australia 31 Dec 1875 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 73

Daughter Eliza Middleton MCALISTER 30 May 1826 Appin, New South Wales, Australia 26 Dec 1873 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 47
Daughter Elizabeth MCALISTER 10 May 1830 Darbalara, New South Wales, Australia 26 Jul 1889 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 59
Son John James MCALISTER 21 Jun 1832 Murrumbidgee River, New South Wales, Australia 18 Sep 1882 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 50
Daughter Mary Henrietta Middleton MCALISTER 1835 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 06 Oct 1889 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 54
Son William Henry MCALISTER 20 May 1838 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1840 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 2
Daughter Charlotte MCALISTER 10 Sep 1840 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 06 Oct 1890 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 50
Son Robert MCALISTER 10 Sep 1842 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 07 Aug 1925 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 82
Son James MCALISTER 19 Nov 1844 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 24 Oct 1890 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 45
Daughter Jemima MCALISTER 02 Sep 1846 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 14 Jun 1907 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 60
Son Thomas George MCALISTER 24 Jan 1849 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1930 Cootamundra, New South Wales, Australia 81
Daughter Sarah MCALISTER 19 Sep 1850 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 16 Sep 1915 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 64
Daughter Rebecca MCALISTER 27 Jun 1852 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 23 Sep 1927 Brisbane, Queensland, Australia 75
Son George MCALISTER 12 Nov 1854 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 26 Jan 1928 Bankstown, New South Wales, Australia 73

Sister Jemima MIDDLETON 05 Feb 1803 London, Middlesex, England 1839 36

Son in Law William EGGLETON 25 Jul 1815 Airds, New South Wales, Australia 10 Apr 1876 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 60
Son in Law John Terrence WILKINSON 30 Dec 1821 Liverpool, New South Wales, Australia 19 May 1891 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 69
Daughter in Law Anne Coyed JOYNT 1837 1918 81
Son in Law John NORTON 1826 14 Jan 1865 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 39
Son in Law Peter Briggs BEATTIE 22 Jul 1828 Alloa, Clackmannanshire, Scotland 05 Mar 1891 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 62
Son in Law Henry WILKINSON 04 Dec 1830 Liverpool, New South Wales, Australia 12 Nov 1865 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 34
Son in Law John DODD abt 1831 Somerset, England 27 Jun 1891 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 60
Daughter in Law Sophia CLOUT 30 Jun 1848 Goulburn, New South Wales, Australia 23 Mar 1906 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 57
Daughter in Law Caroline CLOUT 14 Feb 1847 Goulburn, New South Wales, Australia 1919 72
Son in Law William ODDY 1843 1888 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 45
Son in Law John ROBINSON
Daughter in Law Sarah Elizabeth CROWTHER 1846 1926 Cootamundra, New South Wales, Australia 80
Son in Law Thomas DODD abt 1830 Rimpton, Somerset, England 17 Aug 1917 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 87
Son in Law William John SMILES 14 Jun 1846 01 Mar 1904 Parkes, New South Wales, Australia 57
Daughter in Law Lily Dinah FIELD 1861 Young, New South Wales, Australia 10 Jul 1908 47

Grandson Thomas EGGLETON 08 Nov 1842 Gundaroo, New South Wales, Australia 11 Sep 1897 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 54
Grandson William EGGLETON 1845 Yass, New South Wales, Australia 16 May 1921 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 76
Grandson John EGGLETON abt 1847 Yass, New South Wales, Australia 07 Feb 1858 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 11
Granddaughter Sarah EGGLETON 1850 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 07 Mar 1851 Sydney, New South Wales, Australia 1
Grandson Robert EGGLETON 1853 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1892 39
Granddaughter Margaret Elizabeth WILKINSON 1862 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 02 Feb 1925 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 63
Granddaughter Caroline Sarah "Carrie" WILKINSON 28 Apr 1864 Yellowin, New South Wales, Australia 15 Sep 1939 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 75
Granddaughter Charlotte Ellen WILKINSON 30 Sep 1865 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 19 May 1915 Springfield, Monaro, New South Wales, Australia 49
Granddaughter Eliza Ann WILKINSON 1867 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1935 68
Grandson John Thomas WILKINSON 1869 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 18 Mar 1947 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 78
Grandson Thomas Edward E WILKINSON 1873 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1956 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 83
Granddaughter Bridget MCALISTER 1858 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1899 41
Granddaughter Mary MCALISTER 1860 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1936 76
Grandson James MCALISTER 24 Aug 1861 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1947 86
Grandson Patrick MCALISTER 1866 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1884 18
Granddaughter Elizabeth Catherine Kate MCALISTER 1870 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1965 95
Grandson Francis J MCALISTER 1872 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1917 45
Grandson Thomas Phillip NORTON 23 Sep 1857 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1908 51
Granddaughter Caroline NORTON 03 Aug 1859 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1942 83
Granddaughter Elizabteh Ellen NORTON 27 Jun 1861 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1919 58
Granddaughter Elisa Ann NORTON 14 Jun 1862 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 25 Jun 1868 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 6
Grandson James William NORTON 18 May 1865 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 17 Jun 1940 Cootamundra, New South Wales, Australia 75
Grandson George Tosach BEATTIE 06 May 1867 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1955 88
Grandson John James BEATTIE 16 Oct 1868 Blowering, New South Wales, Australia 21 Feb 1945 Adelong, New South Wales, Australia 76
Grandson David Alexander Patrick BEATTIE 27 Aug 1870 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1940 70
Granddaughter Mary Jane BEATTIE 30 Mar 1874 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1953 79
Grandson James Peter BEATTIE 14 Jan 1876 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia
Granddaughter Charlotte Ellen BEATTIE 08 Feb 1878 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1951 73
Grandson Robert BEATTIE 07 Mar 1880 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1963 83
Granddaughter Elizabeth Caroline WILKINSON 30 Jun 1858 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 05 Feb 1943 Brungle, Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 84
Grandson Edward WILKINSON 05 Sep 1859 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 15 Aug 1942 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 82
Granddaughter Eliza Amelia WILKINSON 07 Dec 1862 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 14 Nov 1869 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 6
Granddaughter Mary Catherine WILKINSON 10 Nov 1863 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 03 Dec 1869 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 6
Grandson Henry William WILKINSON 1865 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia
Granddaughter Helena Lockyer DODD 1872 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1924 52
Grandson John Thomas Roland DODD 1875 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 29 Jul 1958 Lidcombe, New South Wales, Australia 83
Grandson George Marden Metcalfe DODD 1877 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 31 May 1934 Yass, New South Wales, Australia 57
Grandson Samuel Phillip DODD 1881 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 12 Sep 1940 Narrandera, New South Wales, Australia 59
Granddaughter Caroline Amelia MCALISTER 07 Feb 1870 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1968 98
Grandson William Henry MCALISTER 1871 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1945 74
Grandson Alfred Edward Ernest MCALISTER 1873 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia Apr 1963 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 90
Grandson Thomas David MCALISTER 1875 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1876 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1
Granddaughter Ethel Sophia MCALISTER 1876 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 03 Aug 1966 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 90
Grandson Charles Frederick MCALISTER 02 Feb 1878 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 23 Nov 1960 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 82
Granddaughter Elizabeth Ellen (Sis) MCALISTER 27 Jul 1879 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 02 Jul 1963 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 83
Grandson Robert Roland MCALISTER 12 Nov 1880 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 06 Aug 1959 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 78
Granddaughter Florence Sarah MCALISTER 20 May 1882 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 06 Jul 1953 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 71
Granddaughter Mary Ann MCALISTER 1884 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1961 77
Granddaughter Emily Francis MCALISTER 1887 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 25 Dec 1904 17
Granddaughter Essie J MCALISTER 1889 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1889 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 0
Grandson Herbert John MCALISTER 1890 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1965 75
Granddaughter Alice May MCALISTER 1894 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 18 Oct 1975 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 81
Granddaughter Sarah MCALISTER 1867 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1867 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 0
Grandson William MCALISTER 09 Sep 1868 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 27 Sep 1869 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1
Grandson Arthur MCALISTER 15 Jan 1870 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 15 Jan 1870 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 0
Granddaughter Emily Jane MCALISTER 08 Feb 1871 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 23 Oct 1931 60
Grandson Charles Albert (Bert) Augustus MCALISTER 07 Dec 1872 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 26 Sep 1953 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 80
Grandson Thomas Arthur MCALISTER 10 Jul 1874 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 28 Feb 1953 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 78
Grandson Edward George MCALISTER 31 Aug 1876 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 28 Apr 1958 Manly, New South Wales, Australia 81
Granddaughter Edith Caroline MCALISTER 18 Jul 1879 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 03 Nov 1945 Adelong, New South Wales, Australia 66
Granddaughter Harriet Helena MCALISTER 27 May 1880 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 04 Dec 1958 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 78
Grandson John James MCALISTER 19 Sep 1882 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 06 Oct 1883 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1
Granddaughter Margaret Elizabeth MCALISTER 21 Aug 1884 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1962 78
Grandson George Middleton MCALISTER 14 Jan 1887 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 07 Oct 1976 Eastwood, New South Wales, Australia 89
Grandson Percy Edgar MCALISTER 29 Mar 1890 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 27 Nov 1961 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 71
Granddaughter Phoebe ODDY 21 Feb 1867 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 07 Jan 1908 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 40
Granddaughter Emma ODDY 1869 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 03 Feb 1937 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 68
Granddaughter Caroline Alice ODDY 1873 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1954 Lithgow, New South Wales, Australia 81
Granddaughter Elizabeth V ODDY 1882 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia
Grandson John L ODDY 1885 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1886 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1
Granddaughter Ethel Amelia MCALISTER 26 Apr 1875 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1953 78
Granddaughter Elizabeth DODD 1872 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1921 49
Granddaughter Martha DODD 1873 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1947 74
Grandson William John DODD 1874 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1942 68
Grandson Robert DODD 1876 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1890 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 14
Granddaughter Amelia Mary Millie DODD 06 Feb 1878 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 08 Mar 1964 Concord, New South Wales, Australia 86
Grandson Thomas Arthur DODD 1879 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1954 75
Grandson Charles Cuthbert DODD 1881 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1960 79
Granddaughter Ethel Caroline DODD 1882 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1959 77
Grandson Henry George DODD 1885 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1959 74
Grandson Edward Lockyer DODD 1887 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1969 82
Grandson Clarence Frederick (Harry) DODD 1889 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1974 85
Granddaughter Emma May DODD 1891 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1946 Lismore, New South Wales, Australia 55
Grandson Ernest Middleton SMILES 30 Oct 1874 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1933 59
Granddaughter Selina Victoria SMILES 1875 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1940 65
Granddaughter Amelia Caroline SMILES 1879 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1963 84
Grandson Wallace Edgar SMILES 1881 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1956 75
Grandson Harry Ivor SMILES 1887 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1925 Brisbane, Queensland, Australia 38
Grandson George Clyde MCALISTER 1883 Gundagai, New South Wales, Australia 1929 46
Granddaughter Sylvia Lillian MCALISTER 1884 Wagga Wagga, New South Wales, Australia 1956 72
Grandson Guy Harold MCALISTER 13 Aug 1886 Gundagai, New South Wales, Australia 1928 Cootamundra, New South Wales, Australia 42
Granddaughter Olive Constance MCALISTER 1888 Gundagai, New South Wales, Australia Feb 1924 Canterbury, New South Wales, Australia 36
Granddaughter Annie V MCALISTER 1890 Gundagai, New South Wales, Australia
Granddaughter Lillie Elizabeth MCALISTER 1892 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 1971 79
Grandson Hubert T MCALISTER 1894 Gundagai, New South Wales, Australia 1906 West Wyalong, New South Wales, Australia 12
Grandson Cecil R MCALISTER 1896 Adelong, New South Wales, Australia 1900 Gundagai, New South Wales, Australia 4
Grandson William James MCALISTER 1896 Adelong, New South Wales, Australia 1984 88
Grandson Sidney Vivian MCALISTER 1898 Adelong, New South Wales, Australia 1935 37
Granddaughter Minnie Caroline MCALISTER 1901 Adelong, New South Wales, Australia 1950 49
Grandson Albert Edward MCALISTER 1904 Adelong, New South Wales, Australia 1944 40

Niece Sarah Eliza WARBY 02 Feb 1833
Niece Mary Ann IBBOTSON 1831 Cooks River, New South Wales, Australia 1909 Woollahra, New South Wales, Australia 78
Nephew Robert George (George) IBBOTSON 15 Nov 1834 Sydney, New South Wales, Australia 26 Jun 1926 Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 91

Sister in Law Mary Ann MCALISTER 27 May 1803 Sydney, New South Wales, Australia 04 Nov 1845 Sydney, New South Wales, Australia 42
Brother in Law William WARBY Jul 1801 Prospect, New South Wales, Australia 1885 Victoria, Australia 84
Events in Caroline MIDDLETON (1810 - 1863)'s life
Date Age Event Place Notes Src
31 Dec 1810 Caroline MIDDLETON was born London, Middlesex, England
12 Jan 1814 3 Immigration Sydney, New South Wales, Australia per 'Kangaroo' Free
1826 16 Married Michael BRENNAN (aged 23) Sydney Cove, New South Wales, Australia
30 May 1826 15 Birth of daughter Eliza Middleton MCALISTER Appin, New South Wales, Australia 73
20 Jan 1828 17 Death of father William Henry MIDDLETON (aged 53) Campbelltown, New South Wales, Australia
14 Apr 1828 17 Married Thomas MCALISTER (aged 26) Campbelltown, New South Wales, Australia
10 May 1830 19 Birth of daughter Elizabeth MCALISTER Darbalara, New South Wales, Australia 73
21 Jun 1832 21 Birth of son John James MCALISTER Murrumbidgee River, New South Wales, Australia 73
1835 25 Birth of daughter Mary Henrietta Middleton MCALISTER Tumut, New South Wales, Australia
1836 26 Death of mother Sarah GUNNER (aged 61)
20 May 1838 27 Birth of son William Henry MCALISTER Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 73
1840 30 Death of son William Henry MCALISTER (aged 2) Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 73
10 Sep 1840 29 Birth of daughter Charlotte MCALISTER Tumut, New South Wales, Australia
10 Sep 1842 31 Birth of son Robert MCALISTER Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 73
19 Nov 1844 33 Birth of son James MCALISTER Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 73
02 Sep 1846 35 Birth of daughter Jemima MCALISTER Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 73
24 Jan 1849 38 Birth of son Thomas George MCALISTER Tumut, New South Wales, Australia
19 Sep 1850 39 Birth of daughter Sarah MCALISTER Tumut, New South Wales, Australia
27 Jun 1852 41 Birth of daughter Rebecca MCALISTER Tumut, New South Wales, Australia 73
12 Nov 1854 43 Birth of son George MCALISTER Tumut, New South Wales, Australia
25 Apr 1863 52 Caroline MIDDLETON died Tumut, New South Wales, Australia
Personal Notes:
From ‘Relict of ‘ Book
CAROLINE MCALISTER nee Middleton
By George and Lois Stathers
There are many written accounts of famous or influential people from the early days of the Colony of NSW but far fewer concerning women from humble origins. This is the story of one such woman. In many ways she was a victim of the harsh social and economic conditions of the Industrial Revolution, in other ways she rose above these misfortunes of birth to forge a new life and family in a frontier society.

Caroline Middleton was her name and she was born in London around 1810. The family consisted of her mother Sarah, father William, and two older sisters- Jemima and Sarah. Her father, a carpenter, was sentenced in 1812 to be transported to Botany Bay for 14 years. Her mother was pregnant for the fourth time at the time of the sentence and a boy was born in February, 1813.

By a twist of fate her mother was able to obtain permission from the Government to join her husband, and she and the children sailed on the Brig, Kangaroo in June 1813. The journey was long and tough, taking 7 months and 8 days, going by Madeira and Rio de Janiero. At the Cape of Good Hope they were delayed by the need for extensive repairs to the ship owing to storm damage. Sarah’s little boy died
on board during the voyage. This whole saga and the circumstances of the Kangaroo’s voyage is described at length by Portia Robinson in her book “Women of Botany Bay.”

Caroline was about 4 years of age when she arrived in the brash town of Sydney. Her father was soon given a Ticket of Leave and took up his trade as a carpenter. By 1820 Sarah, his wife, had obtained a grant for 60 acres of land at Appin, south of Sydney. William was assigned to her.

The grant was just north of the little village next to John Oxley’s grant. It was not easy land to farm and life must have been difficult at best. There, two more children were born, making eight mouths to feed. The neighbours were mainly Irish, mostly with a convict past.

By 1821 William Middleton was noted to be “off stores” and Jemima, Caroline’s eldest sister, married William Warby in the St. Luke’s Anglican Church at Liverpool. William Middleton appears to have achieved early success as he obtained land grants at Airds (Campbelltown) and for a period ran an Inn at Appin.

By the mid 1820s the Middleton family had assigned servants which probably made the work on the farm easier or perhaps gave more mouths to feed. There was a severe drought in 1826.

Then a tragic phase in their lives was entered. Caroline became pregnant at age 16 to a Michael Brennan from Appin, and a daughter Eliza, was born in May 1826. They did not marry and the baby stayed with the Middleton family. Also William Middleton, Caroline's father, died in 1828.

Caroline married Thomas McAlister in the St.Peter's Anglican Church at Campbelltown on 14 April 1828. She went to live in a hut with Thomas and his mates at Bulli near the Five Islands ( current Wollongong). One can only imagine the circumstances of her life there. Thomas was a wild Currency Lad and his friends were of doubtful character. After three local robberies, which involved serious threat to life, two of them were convicted and given capital sentences on the information given by Thomas. Unfortunately Caroline's mother, Sarah Middleton, was also convicted as being a "receiver" of goods, especially a watch, and was sent for 14 years to Moreton Bay.

During the time of the trial Caroline delivered a baby which, not surprisingly, died within two days.

Life has many twists of fate. By this time Caroline's sister Jemima and husband William Warby had taken up a land warrant, at a site known as Darbalara, on the junction of the Murrumbidgee and Tumut rivers. This was beyond the borders of defined settlement.

No better place to escape to could be afforded to Thomas and Caroline. Thomas's life would have been in danger as an informer and the Middleton family was fractured. This must have been an epic journey through the rather primitive towns of Bungonia, Goulburn and Yass. Their rough life would have prepared them and given them necessary survival skills. They also possibly had with them young Eliza, aged 3, and the two younger Middleton children.

At Darbalara a farm had been laid out. There was a stock yard, wheat paddock, and a settler's cottage, as described by a Dr. Bennett in a book written about his wanderings in NSW in 1832. Sturt also had passed through earlier in 1828 and described meeting Warby and being given provisions and milk by him. There were bell-birds, abundant fish and water fowl. Dr. Bennett noted that Aboriginals were employed at the station, particularly for their ability to track lost cattle.

After "working their way down the river" it was to this idyllic spot that the young family came, and where, on 11 June 1830, a child Elizabeth, was born to Caroline. This child is reputed to be the first baby born of a white woman in the Tumut district.

It must have been very lonely for a young woman. There were few neighbours and these were usually ticket of leave men. It is likely that Caroline only had her sister Jemima, and perhaps older sister Sarah, as white female companions in the vast district. (Mrs Amelia Shelley, wife of George Shelley, came to Bombowlee Station in 1835.) However Caroline must have been busy, she had a new baby, other young
children to care for, plus all of usual domestic chores of a woman living in a frontier settlement.

They stayed at Darbalara until 1835 when another personal tragedy eventuated.

William Warby was convicted of “receiving” cattle and was transported to Tasmania in 1835. Jemima followed him but could not tolerate the cold, returned to Sydney where she died in 1839, aged 36 years.

Two more children were born at Darbalara before they moved to the area known as Gilmore Creek. There Thomas grew the first saleable wheat in the district. In 1835 the Yass Church Register records the birth of William, son of Thomas and Carolyn MacAlister, farmer, Gilmore Creek, Tumut River. William however died in infancy.

Then the family moved to Shelley’s farm at Bombowlee where three children were born between 1840 and 1844. Caroline was now 34 years of age. It was around this time that Eliza Middleton-Brennan, Caroline’s first child, married William Eggleton, probably in the first church at Tumut.

By 1842 Thomas appears to have become more affluent and purchased two properties, Westwood and Wereboldera, in Tumut. Five more children were born at “Wereboldera”, the last, George, was born 12 November 1854, when Caroline was 44. From a frontier community Tumut was assuming the characteristics of a town. The McAlisters were associated with the Anglican Church and a donation by them to support the Rev. Thomas Wilkinson is on record.

The last 18 years at Wereboldera must have been years of relative peace, living in such a beautiful area so close to the Tumut river. Caroline lived to see Elizabeth marry John Wilkinson in 1847, John James marry Ann Joint in 1857, and Mary Henrietta marry Henry Wilkinson in 1857.

At the time of her death on 26 April, 1863, aged 53 years, she still had five children under the age of 17 years. She was buried in an unmarked grave in the Tumut Pioneer cemetery.

These are merely the chronicles of Caroline’s short life. They give glimpses of a life lived in harsh and unforgiving circumstances. She was obVIously tenaCIous, tough and loyal. What we can say is that she represents characteristics which have allowed Australia to prosper and her descendants should be proud that she is their forebear.

Acknowlegement; To Mrs, Val Wilkinson for giving the encouragement, knowledge and insights to allow preparation of this story.

Prepargd by George apnd Lois Stathers- LOIS is a great, great, grand-daughter of Caroline: March,2001.
Source References:
69. Type: Book, Abbr: Relict of, Title: Relict of … Lives of Pioneering Women of Tumut and District, Auth: Tumut Family History Group, Publ: Tumut Family History Group, Date: 2001
- Reference = 55-57 (Notes)
73. Type: Book, Abbr: Pioneers of Tumut Valley, Title: Pioneers of the Tumult Valley , The History of Early Settlement, Auth: H.E. Snowden, Publ: Tumut & District Historical Society Incorporated, Date: 2004
- Reference = 33 (Name, Notes)
76. Type: Web Page, Abbr: Find a Grave, Title: Find A Grave, Locn: https://www.findagrave.com/
- Reference = https://www.findagrave.com/memorial/206434000/caroline-mcalister (Name, Notes)

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